Picking up a cat is a routine part of cat ownership, but the method matters. One common approach—picking up a cat by the scruff—is often misunderstood. While mother cats carry kittens by the scruff, does that mean it’s safe for humans to do the same? This article provides an in-depth breakdown of scruffing, whether it’s safe, when (or if) it should be used, and the best alternatives for handling your feline friend.
What Is Scruffing?
Scruffing refers to gripping the loose skin at the back of a cat’s neck (the “scruff”). Mother cats use this technique to transport their kittens, inducing a temporary passive state called the flexor reflex. However, this reflex diminishes as kittens grow, making scruffing less effective and potentially stressful for adult cats.
Is It Safe to Pick a Cat Up by the Scruff?
The short answer: Usually not. While kittens experience a natural reflex when scruffed, adult cats may react negatively. Scruffing can cause stress, fear, and discomfort, especially when used incorrectly.
Why Mother Cats Scruff Kittens (And Why Humans Shouldn’t)
Mother cats pick up their kittens by the scruff for short periods to move them to safety. This method works because kittens have a biological response that causes them to go limp. However:
- This reflex fades as cats mature. Adult cats do not experience the same relaxation effect.
- Mother cats are gentle and precise. Their scruffing is far different from a human’s firm grip.
- Kittens weigh much less than adult cats. A human lifting a full-grown cat by the scruff puts undue strain on the neck.
Potential Risks of Scruffing an Adult Cat
If you pick up a cat by the scruff, especially without supporting its body, you risk:
- Pain & Discomfort – Unlike kittens, adult cats lack the same level of loose skin. Scruffing can stretch the skin unnaturally, leading to pain.
- Loss of Trust – Scruffing can make a cat feel restrained, trapped, or threatened, damaging the bond between the cat and owner.
- Increased Stress & Fear Responses – Many cats associate scruffing with aggressive handling at vet visits, causing them to panic.
- Risk of Injury – Lifting a cat by the scruff alone can cause neck strain, especially in larger breeds or overweight cats.
When (If Ever) Is It Okay to Scruff a Cat?
Scruffing should be a last resort and never used as a regular handling method. The only times scruffing may be acceptable include:
- During Veterinary or Medical Procedures – Some vets use gentle scruffing alongside proper body support for medical restraint, but even many professionals now prefer alternative restraint techniques.
- Emergency Situations – If you need to restrain an aggressive or panicked cat for safety, gently gripping the scruff (while supporting the body) may help momentarily.
However, even in these cases, scruffing should not be the primary handling method and should be done by experienced individuals.
Better Ways to Pick Up a Cat Safely
Instead of picking up a cat by the scruff, use these gentler, safer methods:
1. The Two-Handed Lift (Best for Most Cats)
✅ How to Do It:
- Place one hand under the cat’s chest (behind the front legs).
- Place the other hand under the hindquarters for support.
- Lift slowly and hold the cat close to your body.
📌 Best for: Everyday handling, cuddling, moving your cat to another location.
2. The Sideways Support Method (For Shy or Nervous Cats)
✅ How to Do It:
- Gently scoop the cat from the side, sliding one hand under the belly.
- Use the other hand to support the back legs.
- Keep the cat close to your chest to make it feel secure.
📌 Best for: Timid cats that dislike being lifted suddenly.
3. The Burrito Wrap (For Restraint or Medication)
✅ How to Do It:
- Wrap the cat in a towel or blanket, leaving only the head exposed.
- Hold the wrapped cat securely while providing necessary care.
📌 Best for: Administering medication, nail trims, or grooming.
What to Do If Your Cat Dislikes Being Picked Up
Not all cats enjoy being lifted. If your cat struggles or avoids being picked up, try these steps:
- Respect Boundaries – Some cats prefer to stay on the ground. Offer lap time instead.
- Build Positive Associations – Use treats, soft voices, and gradual handling to make your cat feel safe.
- Use Short Handling Sessions – Lift your cat briefly, then put it down before it gets anxious.
- Let the Cat Come to You – Allow your cat to initiate interaction to build trust.
Final Verdict: Should You Scruff a Cat?
Picking up a cat by the scruff is not recommended for regular handling. While kittens can be carried this way by their mothers, adult cats do not respond the same way and may find scruffing distressing. Instead, use gentle, supportive handling techniques to ensure your cat feels safe, comfortable, and respected.
By learning the right ways to handle your cat, you’ll strengthen your bond and create a more positive experience for both of you.
